I just recently watched a movie called "Click". I do not recommend that you watch the movie due to its language and other inappropriateness in the film. However, there was a good message that came from wathing it. The main character in the movie recieved a remote control that he found could control his life. If he wanted to fast forward parts of his life..He could. If he wanted to skip to another chapter in his life..he could. If he wanted to mute people that annoyed him...he could. But the remote remembered what he did and continued that same pattern without seeking his direction. Within a few days (to him) he had fast forwarded to near the end of his life..missing out on so much, like his kids growing up. He had been pursuing money and a "good" job. In the meantime, he missed out on what was really important to him....His family. And he ended up loosing it all!! His wife left him, His kids became distant from him, his dad died, he got cancer and ended up alone and angry.
What would you fast forward? What are you anxious to get to in life, that may be keeping you from what is in the right here and now? Would you end up the same way? Many times we say." If I only had _________" or "I wish if could be __________ now!" or even like the character above, " When I finally become a ___________, then I'll be happy and successful". Pursuing these earthly things only makes us have earthly things (maybe), but you can miss out on the important stuff such as family, other relationships, God!!. Is it worth it in the end?? What have you really gained. The Bible tells us "if a man gains the whole world, yet forfits his soul," it is basically all for nothing. Don't forfit your soul.
Some health and wealth preachers will tell you that God is going to give you all this stuff. This is against what He says. He repeatedly tells people to leave everything behind and follow Him. How earthly possessions are going to waste away and not to invest in them. Don't be decieved. The Lord will provide for your needs and may give you some "nice earthly stuff" while you are here. When much is given, much is required. How are you going to serve God with it. If He gives you much money, give much away. He gives you much stuff, give it away and/or use it to help others. The only true success is anything the Lord does in us and the success is not our own. We own nothing including success!
Look and your here and now. What is going on now? What has the Lord given you? How are you going to use it for Him? How are you going to use the time you have right now for Him? What priority is your family and God to you?